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Talk Shit.

“What are you doing?”

-“Takin a shit…”

The most memorable of heartaches always come from those men who, after completely hooking you, decide that they don’t have time to continue in the relationship. They are ‘too busy’. What’s most difficult is knowing that you too have a job, schoolwork, friends, and family to balance, but whatever.

Some people really do have a lot on their plate and when it’s time to make cuts, their love life is always the first to go. Ditching family and friends or dropping out of school is never advisable. But really?

There is no such thing as being “too busy”. Time and attention can be made for someone you care about if you’re willing to put in the work.

There was once a guy who called me whenever he took a poop. Some may find that disgusting, but I’m a different kinda girl. I was happy to hear his voice and happy that he made time for me. He called during lunch breaks, slow days at work, and when he waited for his food at restaurants. He made me fit into his schedule. Needless to say, communication wasn’t our issue. Our issue was that he was an asshole.

Did I make my point?

Christine