Anonymous asked: When a guy says "I'm not looking for a relationship," or even "I'm don't want to be in a relationship right now," is that guy code for "Don't get your hopes up, it ain't happ'nin captain?" Most say yes.... some of us who have hope (and clearly are still stuck in a situation like this) say not necessarily. Thoughts?

Those people have hope are only ever the ones stuck in a situation like this. Obviously, you wanna look at the bright side. You wanna pull out all the cute, realationship-y things you all do and ignore the rest when he’s telling you flat out that a relationship isn’t going to happen. You have to decide if a complicated, almost-relationship is what you want. If not, walk. Leave before you embarrass yourself ‘cause things are only bound to get ugly from here.