Anonymous asked: I catch my bf of 5 yrs looking at teen porn and trying to hide it. Does this mean he's unsatisfied with me or I'm I overthinking?We look at porn together all the time. He knows I love it and I'm more sexually driven than him. I'm into everything including anal. When I ask him if he wants to watch the "teen" (18+) porn vids he says gross no way. But he doesn't know that I check his history and see that he watches it without me. I'm turned off and feel like he'd rather have young girls over me

Porn means very little in the real world. Porn is porn. I watch all kinda of crazy shit only because it’s there. It’s a click away. Sometimes our interest is piqued by the unfamiliar. I can watch a girl be tied up and gagged and have completely no interest in having that done to me. I’d say that if you haven’t noticed any changes in your sex life/relationship, there’s nothing to worry about. You say the porn is 18+ and legit. It’s not like he’s watching real deal child pornography or anything. Half the chicks on those “teen” vids have AARP cards, dude. So, your man is not a creep. Maybe the “teen” stuff is just something he wants to keep all to himself (though, he shouldn’t have lied). Let him have something “sacred” in the relationship. It seems you guys share a lot and have a good thing going so, let him have this one thing. I don’t see any reason you should be turned off by it. This in no way means he wants someone younger. He chose you. He’s been choosing you for five years! Don’t let these tiny insecurities sneak out. You’re great and your relationship is a success. Don’t nitpick and ruin a good thing.