Anonymous asked: Hey Christine! So, if your man stops showing you sexual interest and turns down sex would that make you want him more or think he's cheating?

Let’s put an end to the idea that if a man is ignoring you, he’s most definitely cheating. I’m not saying that this is never the case but I know all too well that a man could very well be giving you all the sex you could ever want and take care of one or two other chicks in addition.

I couldn’t handle my man ignoring me sexually. I want it on the regular. And I have no trouble making that clear. So, if I’m coming on to him and getting turned down, it’s an issue. Now he’s fucking with my self-esteem and I can’t have that. So, to answer your question, no it wouldn’t turn me on but I don’t know that I’d skip right to thinking he’s cheating. I’d ask him what’s up and if he doesn’t have a good explanation or is not about fixing it, I’d have to move on. 

Sex is not an absolute deal breaker for me but you’re talking about no sexual interest in the least. No touching or kissing? Like, what’s that about?!