Anonymous asked: It was wrong but I slept with a guy who has a gf. Should I let her know what kind of guy he is? She's also pregnant with his kid. When I see him at work he likes to imply I'm a whore who sleeps with everyone & that's not true at all. I made a huge mistake. How do fix it?

It seems like you want to tell her for more than the purpose of “letting her know what kind of man he is”. Are his asshole remarks at work getting to you so much that you want him to suffer by ruining his relationship? It’s not worth it. You probably don’t know this chick from Adam and therefore don’t owe her a thing—including an explanation/apology. You owed it to yourself to make better decisions and failed. You gotta live with that. Forgive yourself for what went down and move on. As far as work is concerned, have a word with him. A few strong words, if necessary. After work. In person. Don’t even think to text this. In 2012 too much is handled over a keyboard. Tell him to his face to cut the shit.