Anonymous asked: If a guy has a dream about a woman using a dildo or a strap on on him is his straightness in question if he fantasizes about it later?

Yes. I realize that we are in a new day and age where there’s so many kinds of sexualities and ways to love becoming more prevalent and accepted, however, I must say as a heterosexual woman who has always been heterosexual and plans to remain so…I do not want to date a man that has such fantasies. Do those fantasies make that man gay? No. Do they raise suspicion? For most, yes. Could it be that this man is just extremely comfortable with his sexuality and open to different methods of achieving pleasure? Sure! 

Moral of the story is: it’s not about what parts of you are in question to other people. Live your life and be that guy who fantasizes about strap-ons. Forget all the labels and taboos and bullshit.